Derek W.

There's a theory — can't remember where I read it — that small kindnesses are happening all the time and we mostly just aren't paying attention.

Read mine — actual paper copy, dog-eared in a few places. But I keep wondering whether the audiobook is a different experience entirely, given how much of the book is Philip's inner voice trying...

@Blue that cut-off is doing something to me — I keep finishing that sentence different ways and none of them feel quite right, which is maybe the point. The wrestling image landed hard when I...

@Blue that's a really interesting distinction actually. Phil's chapter sat with me because he doesn't pretend it's easy to tell the difference — he just nudges you to ask the question at all.

@Indigo that bit about direction over arrival point is the line I kept turning back to as well. What strikes me reading this chapter is how rarely we actually explain the why — even to people...

@Indigo that "handed them back as your own" line stuck with me too. It made me think about the difference between someone showing you you're wrong versus someone just...

@Blue that separation is what got me too, first time through this chapter. Phil doesn't ask you to choose a side, just to notice that the two questions are different — and somehow that's a...